"BACKWARDS and FORWARDS"
A Tale of Irish Eyes and the Minister's Wife
Using a 1864 Deed to Trace Cousins and Defeat a Century-Old Brick Wall
(Author's note: Some things are just better known.)
As always, unedited.
I.
We wannabe genealogists often fall victim to a common, yet limiting, habit: viewing ancestry as a simple, linear path stretching backward through time. We readily assume that the complete truth about our predecessors is waiting just beyond the next "brick wall," requiring only relentless effort to push through.
This happens a lot, I think, when we try to "jump the pond" and attempt to investigate our European roots. It can feel like we'll never find the records needed to connect us to, say, our eighteenth-century Irish ancestors. It’s like no matter how hard we try to push back in time, that brick wall won't come down.
But what if this perspective is flawed? What if the key to truly "going backward" is actually an act of moving forward to find our way there? What if the key to going back "ancestrally" is to take what's known and move down the line forward in time to see if the present just might reveal more about the past and ultimately knock down another brick wall?
Now I admit. In addition to all of this is the curiosity I have about "my cousins" I might have (or have had) on the other side of the Atlantic, that my family lines have been here so long any memory or evidence of my kin on the other side of the pond has disappeared. But what if you could combine these two concepts—that is, look down or forward in time on a collateral line and perhaps (at the same time) reconnect with, say, one's Irish roots?
I don't know about you, but I have never stood at the grave of any of my known kin anywhere in Europe—let alone the Emerald Isle. However, that changed this week for me as I researched the life of my cousin's family, specifically his ancestor Isabella (Stinson) Cummin. Before I could go any further, though, I found myself up against that rather infamous or proverbial brick wall, genealogically speaking, that is.
While I could map everything back to Isabella and to her brother Thomas Stinson (d. 1860), I couldn't get the line to budge back any further. I realized, though, that because Isabella's brother Thomas had died intestate and, more importantly, without issue (children), he had left a pretty solid list of his siblings and other heirs in some pretty complex documents. I wondered if I could sort them out. Would they give me any clues to the older generation—the ones past Thomas and Isabella?
There were so frickn' many!
Not to make excuses, but I'm not that smart. In addition to that, the document images of Thomas Stinson's estate settlement are numerous, written in hard-to-read script, and presented on difficult-to-navigate web pages.
I did have the advantage of an AI old-cursive script reader on FamilySearch, but even navigating that was beyond tedious, trying to match the script to both names and geography, often written phonetically or translated thusly by the AI. Really, with all these people in Thomas’s estate on both sides of the Atlantic, what did I have to go on?
I'd even fed everything I could find into Google's search engine to help me vet out the relationship between three generations spelled out in Thomas Stinson's estate settlement. But in between everyone being called John, Thomas, or James, I gotta say, with Thomas's eight siblings and numerous nieces and nephews, it all got a wee bit confusing. I had to argue with AI about a couple of the relationships amongst the apparent kinsmen in that the AI was gleaning, but I am generally comfortable with what it has proposed about who is related to whom out of the old text. (BTW...AI and I are still arguing over this a bit; however, this is what "we've" agreed on this far, as taken out of the old documents - that I can see anyway.)
BUT then I remembered that I did have something. I had something very specific, too.
I had the full names of a husband and wife. Not only that, but a Presbyterian minister and his wife.
I recalled a certain April 1864 deed among the mix of Thomas’s estate documents. This particular deed referenced:
"We, the Reverend (Revd.) John Stinson, of the Manse Glendaright, in the County of Tyrone, Ireland, Presbyterian Minister, and Caroline Stinson, otherwise Hamilton, his wife..."
This grand-nephew of the deceased Thomas provided a perfect anchor point. I began to wonder if there weren't modern-day descendants of "John and Caroline." Would it be possible to learn about the family and previous generations by understanding a later one?
Would they have a record of just who Isabella (Stinson) Cummin's and her eight siblings' parents were?
In truth, "John and Caroline" felt like the only "complete couple" I had to work with. At least they seemed to come with some clues. And I had an actual place in Tyrone County. Those clues are Caroline's maiden name of "Hamilton" and the fact that John was a minister. I did have one other couple in the mix of all this. Thomas and Isabella's sister, Nancy Stinson, married Ephraim McBride, but this led me nowhere fast.
After arguing a bit more with the AI model over exactly where Reverend John Stinson fit into the general pedigree, I decided to give it a go and to see just what was out there among the branches. I posited that if I could find direct descendants of one of Thomas and Isabella's brothers (who led me to his great-nephew, the Reverand John), I might be able to reconstruct and reconnect with existing modern-day family in Tyrone County, Ireland. (The Reverend's direct line descends from Thomas and Isabella's brother, James Stinson (G1), as confirmed by the deeds.)
Hey, it was worth a shot. Especially when I found these two:
Above: Final resting place for the Reverend John Stinson and his wife Caroline Hamilton Stinson at the Ballymagrane Presbyterian Church Yard, Aughnacloy, County Tyrone, Ireland. (In the manse of Glendaright (the location of the church), Ballymagrane is a nearby town. Aughnacloy is the main village.) See FindAGrave.com memorial number: 152710296
Yep. That's the Reverend John Stinson and his wife, Caroline Hamilton Stinson.
I knew I had 'em cuz they are the very same people mentioned in that 1864 Power of Attorney.
Winner, winner, chicken dinner.
For the first time in my genealogical life, I was able to look at a researched "American-Irish" connection from over the pond. I was able to look directly at the grave of Isabella (Stinson) Cummins's great-nephew and his wife. These are the graves of my Cousin Dan's Irish cousins. I could even estimate the degree of relationship.
I was getting closer.
II.
There are eight of them.
There are eight submitted family trees that show the Reverend John Stinson and his wife Caroline Hamilton as either the "submitter" or as the "home person." This meant that there are eight possibilities for making connections or learning more about the Stinson family in Ireland. Predictably so, the trees are split about half and half as to whether the submitter is from Ireland or here in the States. The largest issue, though, is that none of them appear to know anything more than I do about the Stinson clan. Only one of them reported back that the father of Reverend John Stinson's father was also named John Stinson - a first cousin to Isabella (Stinson) Cummin.
At least thus far, any further information about the line has stopped.
This hasn't stopped me from reaching out across the pond to Ireland to ask any one of them if they know something more. I received a kind reply from one lady in Ireland who said the family tree she's submitted was "only for a neighbor of her mom's" and that she has no more information. Still, a "neighbor of her mom's" meant that the Stinson line - relatives of Thomas Stinson and Isabella (Stinson) Cummin - not to mention the rest of the Stinson gang, still exist. I need to follow up here to see if there is any wiggle room to learn more.
It also hasn't stopped me from creating a provisional pedigree chart to link my Cousin Dan's ancestors to his more recent ones.
The information about Reverend John Stinson has also allowed me to go genealogically forward. He and his wife, Caroline Hamilton Stinson, had three sons, one of whom also left descendants. The most recently traceable of these leads through their son, Rev. Thomas Stinson, who also became a Presbyterian minister. This Thomas moved to New Zealand, where he also had a family. He left behind a daughter, Olivia Caroline Stinson, who passed away in New Zealand in 1966.
So you got a pretty big family here with kinfolk stretching from Ireland to Pennsylvania to New Zealand. I haven't gone much farther than this. I still have a couple of inquiries out, and I'm hopeful for more replies. In the meantime, I will continue to argue with AI over who belongs where in the documents. I mean, when you're dealing with images like this, it's easy (at least for me) to get confused.
Who'd have thought AI could be so helpful with all of this and also such a pain in the ass? LOL.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not taking AI at face value here.
Anything it "reports" back to me is just another clue to investigate. Still, it has proven to be a great tool for deciphering so many of these obscurities that any genealogist will face every day. It helps narrow the playing field. In the meantime, I'm glad to bring the Irish family back to this lady who rests here below, and to maybe give her descendants a better feel for their Irish roots - past and present.
Above: The broken and barely legible grave of Isabella (Stinson) Cummin, wife of William Cummin Senior, at the Adams Cemetery, Juniata County, Pennsylvania. See FindAGrave Memorial No. 79414950
I think this is a good place to close for now. I believe I have brought some peace to a couple of the old ghosts, or at least have told a little bit more of the tale.
Until next time.
PEACE.
Correction: Olivia Caroline Stinson was from Christ's Church NZ and not Auckland as reported above.