DEAD ENDS
Or as Mother might have said,
"Well wishing zombies..."
"A dead-end street is a good place to turn around." ~ NAOMI JUDD
As always, unapologetically unedited.
Dearest Reader...
A series of letters addressed to me was received by the post office, here, at Saratoga, Wyo., today. As I've been under the weather (and indeed under the ground) for a long while now, I haven't sought to retrieve them. I did read most of them - just not in the usual or conventional way one might expect. After all, even we dead have our ways. Folks often think we can't reach out to them, or that we don't know what their lives are like, and well, they're just wrong. Of course, we do. Weren't we just like them once? It makes no sense trying to tell them this, though. One must patiently wait for them to find out soon enough for themselves. (The truth is, I just read over his shoulder as he wrote.)
Apologies. As usual, my old brain is getting ahead of my dusty self. (The air certainly is a bit thin in here.)
These particular letters come from 'one of mine' - a great-grandson out in California. Now I have done my best to reply to him, but it's not easy writing upside down even from the spiritual world while lying under the soggy piece of pine that covers the box of one's earthly remains. Truth be told, I'd much rather be enjoying some of that eternal slumber the preacher man from Rawlins promised when they lowered me down in.
Nevertheless, the arrival of his letters and his urgent need for an unfamiliar yet friendly ethereal voice tells me that I can, at least for the moment, wake up and clear my head for a bit to hear what he's trying to say. He wants to tell me that he is going to go back to someplace called FaceBook, and he's looking for some advice.
I wrote back that 'FaceBook' seemed an odd name for a city, but told him I was unfamiliar with many of the new settlements out West. I asked him how he would travel there, and if it was anywhere near Dog Town, Death Valley, or Angel's Camp? I wrote that I was pretty sure his grandma and my Mrs. had a sister out that way. He seemed flustered trying to explain exactly where it was to me and finally just said it was "someplace in between all three."
Well, I had to scratch my skull at that.
I told him I was certain that he would be fine 'at' Facebook and asked him again if we had family or friends out that way. He got a funny look on his face and said that this was sometimes part of the problem. I asked him what he hoped to do there. Did he want to settle and farm, or maybe go into business there at FaceBook? There are a lot of new fan-dangled things out these days to buy and sell like real nice boot polish or even great big new things like 'lectric washing machines.
I told him that maybe he could start up a business buying or selling things like that there, and may be open up for business close to the FaceBook's City Hall? He only laughed; he said didn't want to get scammed for something out of the back of some old rusty Subaru at midnight in the Wal-Mart parking lot. I guessed he must have a pack mule called "Sue" or a girlfriend named Miss "Sue Barreau" who isn't trustworthy after dark. I told him there's always gonna be carpetbaggers you had to watch out for. I said too that "Walmart" sure seems like a funny name for the City Hall.
I asked him if he expected to meet new people or make new friends. He said the last time he visited there he got caught up with a gal who turned out to be a cat-fishing presidential assassin. He said that the FBI had even come to his house and questioned his wife and to his work to question him over his associations with her at FaceBook. I told him I couldn't remember much about Leon Czolgosz of John Schrank, nor even good old Garfield or McKinley for that matter anymore, and that he sure wasn't the first man to fall victim to the charms of some redhead looking for someone to buy her supper. I told him chances were that she'd end up just like them - forgotten in their coffins. He really shouldn't let it bother him all that much if some woman was a better fisherman than he was neither. After all, we all have our strengths. If he hadn't done anything wrong, well then, God and his wife would forgive him, and well, maybe next season the fish would too.
He kept talking about the Bolsheviks or the Chinese influencing what he called the algorithm and trying to make you vote for someone or believe in something that might or might not be true. He kept saying how something called "AI" was gonna make us see things that weren't really there. I told him I didn't know what no damn "AI" or what no algo-reethum was but that there was always gonna be some Houdini in the crowd and believing everything you read or was told has always been a fool's business.
I told him it was like what my own dad had always said - "Put that algo-reethum back in your pants boy "a-fore" it gets you into trouble."
Think for yourself despite yourself.
He wrote on with a lot more curious statements, and I admit, it caused the dust to swirl around in my head trying to figure out what he meant. He said that he was afraid that being back at FaceBook would mean that he'd just end up getting stuck "in the middle." He said that sooner or later he'd be trying to slow down some war of comments between any combination of his Woke-tree-hugger-karma crystal-loving folk-friends whom he loved dearly and those of his Q'anon-Flat-Earther-Bleach-and-Ivermectin-injecting-Robert.E.Lee-Statue-Believing friend-folks who he loved dearly too. He was afraid of getting stuck in between those two sides each yelling that "only they was the only ones right."
He said that sooner or later each of them would draw a line in the sand that he was expected to cross (or not cross) one way or the other. He was afraid that (Lord help him) if he said the wrong thing when they went to show off a picture of their new baby kittens or barbecued briskets, kids, or guns, or some dead fish they caught, or if he questioned absolutely anything they said or believed to be true about Aliens and Roadkill - that he'd just get beat up and verbally abused over something he called jack-shit.
He said he was afraid of being called out on just about anything, or worse, about somehow mistakenly calling some talented old man in a silly dress "He" or asking why everyone seemed to have concepts of "diversity and inclusion" that necessarily meant excluding someone else.
He wondered if it would be safe for him to volunteer any comments about the merits of absolutely any book selection, from Plato's Dialogues to Dr. Seus to 1984 and Huck Finn, or maybe even All Boys Aren't Blue without being harangued to death by one side or the other?
Or was he just required to light somebody's match?
He didn't think he could do it. Light the match that is.
He remembered that his momma had always taught him that all books are good. How else are you gonna learn how to think for yourself? She'd told him.
All I could say as I rolled over in my grave that day was that not much had changed in the world since I'd left. It sure seemed like this town called FaceBook must be a pretty small place, and I could see why that great-grandson of mine was reluctant to go back or to say Hell or High Water around those parts. I could see even from my dark vantage point that if one wasn't careful in those parts you'd be apt to get lost out on the range or end up with some strange red-haired woman of ill-repute trying to take you fishing or do in some president when all's you wanted to do was to try out a little bit of that Golden Rule Stuff. Lord help you if you were defending "someone else's somebody or somebody else." Hell in that place, just thinking for yourself could be a problem.
All I could say to the kid was, well, Good luck there now, y'hear.
And then, leaving word at the post office that yes, I'd read his letters, and sending off the thoughts from my own, I turned over and went back to sleep.
Better him than me was all I could think.
Return to sender, kid.
All the best.
Much love, Granddad.